I got married a few years ago (do I still qualify as a newlywed? I’m going with yes) and I remember the joy and stress and craziness and excitement of wedding planning like it was yesterday. It was the best of times and it was the worst of times. A good deal of energy and elbow grease and emotion went into planning our day of celebration and grace. So, in an effort to support future brides and grooms and their families everywhere, here’s what I wish people would keep in mind regarding wedding etiquette. If you’re going to any weddings this year, these are a few notes just for you.